Guide

What is a McKenzie Friend?

A McKenzie Friend supports you in the family court when you’re representing yourself. They sit beside you, help with your papers and help you through each hearing, so you never have to face it alone.

Where the name comes from

The name comes from a 1970 divorce case, McKenzie v McKenzie, in which the Court of Appeal confirmed that people representing themselves are entitled to reasonable help from a friend in court. Today the term covers anyone who supports a “litigant in person” through their case.

Many McKenzie Friends, including me, are experienced professionals who charge for their time. The courts set out what McKenzie Friends can and can’t do in official guidance, so you always know where you stand.

What a McKenzie Friend can do

  • Sit beside you in the courtroom and give you moral support
  • Take notes during the hearing, so you can concentrate
  • Help you organise and understand your case papers
  • Quietly help you with points to raise, and with what the judge is asking
  • Outside court: help with forms, statements, bundles and letters

What a McKenzie Friend can’t do

  • Speak to the judge for you, unless the judge gives permission
  • Act as your legal representative or take over running your case
  • Sign court documents or deal with the court on your behalf

How to have a McKenzie Friend with you

Let the court know before your hearing that you’d like a McKenzie Friend to assist you. The judge may ask for a short CV and confirmation that your McKenzie Friend will keep your case confidential. I prepare this for you. Permission is almost always given.

McKenzie Friend or solicitor?

Solicitors and barristers are regulated and can speak for you in court. A McKenzie Friend can’t, but is with you for more of the journey, at a fraction of the cost. Some people use both.

Solicitor compared with a McKenzie Friend
SolicitorMcKenzie Friend
Speaks for you in courtYes (or instructs a barrister)Only with the judge’s permission
Prepares forms and statementsYesHelps you prepare them
Sits beside you at hearingsNot usuallyYes
Emotional support between hearingsRarelyYes, it’s central to the role
Regulated professionalYesNo
Typical costHigherLower

Frequently asked questions

What exactly can a McKenzie Friend do in court?

Sit next to you, take notes, help you with your papers and quietly help you understand what the judge is asking. Because I know your case well, I can help you think through your answers. I don’t tell you what to say.

Can you speak to the judge for me?

No. McKenzie Friends don’t have rights of audience, so we can’t address the court unless the judge gives permission. I can speak to you, and support you, throughout.

Will the judge let me have a McKenzie Friend?

Almost always. You let the court know in advance, usually with a short CV, which I prepare for you. I’ve never been in a case where it wasn’t allowed.

Is a McKenzie Friend cheaper than a solicitor?

Yes, usually much cheaper. Many people use a McKenzie Friend for most of their case and save solicitors or barristers for specific hearings, if at all.

Can you help if the other side has a solicitor or barrister?

Yes. It’s no different. I’m used to supporting clients whose ex has a barrister, including helping with communication outside the courtroom.

My hearing is in a few days. Is it too late to get help?

No. It’s never too late to get help. Get in touch as soon as you can.

Is what I tell you confidential?

Absolutely. The only exception is a safeguarding concern, which I would always discuss with you first.

Next step

You don’t have to face this alone

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